Major decisions in Life

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BRO TakeMarcus ValeSep 18, 20263 min

Male friendship doesn't survive on autopilot after thirty

School and work put you in a room with people. Once that stops, nobody is arranging it — and most men never start.

Stop saying "we should get together" and pick a Tuesday

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After SkoolSep 27

The Optimal Morning Routine - Andrew Huberman

Doctor Alex Dec 16

The Morning Routine That Adds Years to Your Life (Science-Backed)

Abhasa - Mental HealthApr 24

Stop Copying Morning Routines. Do This Instead.

LenaLiftsMar 1

11 healthy habits you NEED in your morning routine⛅️: how to change your life & be productive!

TEDx TalksJul 7

Making Friends as an Adult | Mark Shapiro, MD | TEDxSonomaCounty

Shimon DavisMay 20

How to make friends

Coffee With HamptonOct 21

how to make friends (as an adult)

Matthew HusseyMar 29

How To Make Friends As An Adult

Rosey LiMar 17

How to Make FRIENDS in Your 20s (3 Steps to Build Social CONFIDENCE)

easy, actuallyAug 6

becoming social is easy, actually

The Dr. John Delony ShowOct 3

How Do I Make Friends as an Adult?

Charisma on CommandFeb 26

3 Easy Ways To Make New Friends As An Adult

Hayley HoneymanJan 19

How to make friends as an adult!

vlogbrothersAug 3

How Do Adults Make Friends?

Caroline WinklerDec 2

How to MAKE FRIENDS...as an ADULT.

Kurzgesagt – In a NutshellSep 6

How To Make Friends

GuideCal BrennanSep 26, 20266 min

Everyone around you already knows your blind spot

You can't see how you come across. The people who share your kitchen and your office can, and they'll tell you if you ask the right way.

BRO TakeCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Belonging isn't a feeling, it's a standing appointment

The longevity research keeps landing on the same unglamorous thing: a group of people who notice when you don't show up.

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Build me a 30-day training plan around two sessions a week

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Nobody's watching, and that's exactly the point

Character isn't decided in the crisis. It's decided in four unremarkable seconds at a self-checkout, and you've had a few thousand of those.

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The Tuesday visit beats the Christmas visit every time

Living close to grandparents changes both ends of the family, and the ordinary weeknights do more of the work than the holidays ever will.

Poll

How often do you see your closest friends?

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

The Okinawan friend group that meets for fifty years

A moai started as a village money pool and became the most durable friendship structure anybody has built. The mechanics copy just fine.

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20266 min

Steal the slow habits of the world's longest-lived towns

Stay at the table after the plates are empty, walk twelve minutes after dinner, stop eating at eighty percent. None of it costs a dollar.

Shirts.com — Design it with AI. Wear it this week.

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Ten minutes a day with nothing in your ears

No podcast, no music, no phone. Just a chair and a timer. It's the cheapest upgrade to your head you'll find, and the first week is rough.

Quiz

Is your money actually in order?

Six questions. No email required, no sales pitch at the end.

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Grade the week on how you lived, not what you finished

A twenty-minute Sunday habit, six questions and a cheap notebook that'll tell you things your task list never does.

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Take the job nobody wants and the purpose question goes quiet

Purpose isn't something you dig up by thinking harder. It's what's left over after you've shown up somewhere long enough for people to count on you.

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Build me a revision plan that I will actually stick to

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

How to be patient without turning into a pushover

Patience isn't a temperament you're issued at birth. It's mostly arithmetic, plus two habits you can install this week.

Delicious.com — Nine thousand recipes and a plan for tonight

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Say the hard thing while it's still small

The conversation you're dreading takes about four minutes. Putting it off for six weeks is what actually costs you.

Poll

How often do you see your closest friends?

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Write down the number where you'd stop upgrading

Contentment isn't a smaller life. It's knowing what you're actually building, so the wanting stops driving the truck.

GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

Take the job nobody takes a picture of

The volunteer work that changes you isn't the ribbon cutting. It's the chairs, the dishes, and the second Saturday you didn't feel like showing up.

Names.com — The name is the first thing you sell

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20266 min

Gratitude out loud beats gratitude in a notebook

Say the specific thing to the specific person for two weeks and you'll start catching things you used to walk right past.

Quiz

Does your wardrobe actually fit you?

Five questions, honestly answered, and a plan for the next two weeks.

6 min

Recovering from a hard year is mostly logistics

5 min

Order first and nobody asks you twice

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GuideCal BrennanSep 23, 20265 min

What actually happens when you dial 988

The hold music, the questions they ask, the myth about police in your driveway, and why most of the call is just somebody asking how you're doing.

Coconut.com — Tell us when. We find where the sun is.

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Don't say "let me know if you need anything"

Your friend has cancer, you're scared of saying the wrong thing, and the fix is smaller and far more boring than you'd guess.

Poll

How often do you see your closest friends?

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Major decisions in Life

Male friendship doesn't survive on autopilot after thirty

Say what you did, say what it cost, then go fix it

Face-down is still on the table

Nobody teaches you how to show up for bad news

Say "I was wrong" first, and people start believing the rest

Stop saying "we should get together" and pick a Tuesday

Worth an hour of your evening

Everyone around you already knows your blind spot

Belonging isn't a feeling, it's a standing appointment

Nobody's watching, and that's exactly the point

The Tuesday visit beats the Christmas visit every time

The Okinawan friend group that meets for fifty years

Steal the slow habits of the world's longest-lived towns

Ten minutes a day with nothing in your ears

Grade the week on how you lived, not what you finished

Take the job nobody wants and the purpose question goes quiet

How to be patient without turning into a pushover

Say the hard thing while it's still small

Write down the number where you'd stop upgrading

Take the job nobody takes a picture of

Gratitude out loud beats gratitude in a notebook

Recovering from a hard year is mostly logistics

Order first and nobody asks you twice

What actually happens when you dial 988

Don't say "let me know if you need anything"